Tuesday, May 10, 2011

The Photoshopped Hilary Clinton Brouhaha

Ultra-Orthodoxy (aka Hasidism) is one of the most misunderstood denominations, and the brouhaha over the photoshopped Hilary Clinton picture is the latest example. The general assumption is that women being refused “face space” in ultra-orthodox publications is due to a tacit attempt to “silence” the female voice as well as the overall lack of respect for women in ultra-orthodox society. Although several pundits—Albert Friedman, publisher of Di Tzeitung, and Dov Hikind, NYS Assemblyman, among them—have attempted to explain that not publishing images of women is merely a modesty standard that the Orthodox abide by, few people are listening.
And small wonder. Hilary Clinton is not what one would think of as a sex symbol. To say that cutting her picture is necessary in order not to incite lustful thoughts seems, to the world at large, a ludicrous explanation. Furthermore, feminist discourse has (thankfully, in my opinion) become commonplace, and so, the phrases “silencing the woman” and “dominant male ideology” are part of the layman’s lexicon, springing instinctively to mind in a situation such as this. Never mind that bookstores catering to the Orthodox are filled with books about inspirational women and/or by female authors, belying the silencing of women claim, and that the ultra-orthodox were on the whole, exceedingly supportive of Hilary during her run for presidency, negating the lack of respect for women claim. These facts are dismissed and ignored. As is typical with stereotypes and preconceived opinions, the popular viewpoint prevails, despite evidence to the contrary. 
To be fair, Ultra-Orthodoxy is misunderstood because the link between certain ideologies and their resultant actions are, indeed, frequently blurred. Channeling Poet Laureate Gerald Stern’s poem, “Blue Skies, White Breasts, Green Trees” (Blue Skies, White Breasts, Green Trees “It was my brain fooling me, sending me false images…”), what one takes to be discriminating against men is often based on an ideology that reflects negatively on women, and vice versa.

Here is one example: The entrance to wedding halls that cater to the Orthodox are divided – one entry area for men, one for women. In most halls, the women’s entrance is a large room featuring elegant décor and plush seating (similar to a lobby of an upscale hotel). The men’s entrance is usually an unadorned foyer, not especially large or impressive. The actual hall itself is also often more elaborately decorated on the women’s side. Additionally, most ultra-Orthodox weddings boast live floral centerpieces on each table – but only on the women’s side. The female guests are generally served a more gourmet appetizer and a much more elegant dessert dish than the men. How discriminating against the male species, wouldn’t you think? How second class they are treated! But oddly, the ideology that created this unjust setup is based on a concept that glorifies the male. According to Utra-Orthodox doctrine, men are cerebral specimens, engaged in (or at least, meant to engage in) erudite and scholarly matters, unconcerned and uninterested in superficial trivialities such as the décor of a room, a table centerpiece, or presentation of food. Women, apparently more frivolous and shallow (according to this ideology), care deeply about such material entities and, therefore, are accommodated in this area. Understanding the reasoning places an entirely different spin on an action that appears to be treating the Orthodox male shabbily.

Analogously, the exclusion of female images in Orthodox media, though appearing to be dismissive of women, is actually—if one goes by the ideology it is based on—more of a negative reflection on the Orthodox male character than it is of the female. Is the Orthodox male so animalistic and weak that he cannot control his lust at the mere sight of a female?

In truth, the Orthodox don’t much care about the origins of certain acts or the ideologies that have created them. As is often the case, the ideal and the actuality are not precisely the same. The Orthodox women are pleased to enjoy elegant affairs and couldn’t care less that it’s supposed to make them appear frivolous. (Many men, though, are beginning to speak up, demanding “equal rights” in the wedding dinner menu department.) The Orthodox men are happy to have “kosher” reading material that is interesting and relevant to their lives and are unconcerned that exclusion of certain images reflects badly on their natures. Like humans all over the world, their thoughts and concerns are about whatever affects their immediate lives.

And that is another thing that is misunderstood about the Ultra-Orthodox/Hasidim: They are, ultimately, human beings. Despite the singular clothing, despite the lifestyle that complies with a legal code of an ancient text, they are regular people with regular desires, worries, loves, and hates. Except for a small minority, none have chosen this lifestyle. They were born into it and have retained the status quo. They are not, at their core, more pious or more base than other human beings.

And yet, if one peruses the various comments sections following articles about the edited Hilary Clinton photo, the hatred spewed upon the Ultra-Orthodox is staggering to behold. Interestingly enough, the vitriol directed toward them—as an entire group, a single entity—is coming from those who supposedly glorify liberal values, who care about women’s rights, and who believe in tolerance toward all.  How strange that this tolerance seems to evaporate when the discussion turns to fundamentalist Jews who are “all retarded, evil, and sick” (as expressed, among other lovely sentiments, by numerous commenters).

The Ultra-Orthodox set certain standards for themselves that are intended to help them live morally. One of these is the prohibiting of publishing pictures of women in their own media. They do not differentiate between images that have the potential to incite lust and those that don’t, as to do so would cause more disagreement and problematic situations than applying a single blanket rule.

Does the exclusion of female images actually help the Orthodox live more piously? Possibly for some, doubtful for most. Does it show a lack of respect for women in general or for Hilary in particular? Absolutely not. The Orthodox regard Hilary highly and most would have probably voted her into office if she would have won the democratic candidacy instead of Obama.
Is the exclusion of female images in Orthodox media a wise or ethical policy? Each person will respond to this question according to her/his personal beliefs. But the fact remains: Orthodox media is created by and for the Orthodox. These are their standards. They do not condemn the secular media for not abiding by their standards; perhaps it would be prudent for the secular community to return the favor.

25 comments:

  1. Sensible vindication, and one that Albert Friedman should have issued in place of his pitiful apology.
    In regards to setting the standard, altering photos in instances where the photo itself makes the news, is being dishonest.
    FYI, the local KJ papers, blacken out faces of MEN too, presumably on request of the Vaad. This certainly has nothing to do with sexual excitement. I'ts merely another layer of shielding from the outside world.

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  2. Good post. I agree that this was not about silencing women or about the fact that she is in any way sexually suggestive.

    But what it is about is still a very problematic issue. The extremely dysfunctional attitudes that are pervading religious society regarding sexuality and male/female interactions are getting crazier and crazier. Separate seating on buses, separate hours in stores for men and women, forbidding all photos of women, separate streets even in some places, more and more separation between the sexes at every single situation... it's all indicative of a seriously screwed up world.

    This behavior might have been common for a while already amongst small groups, but it's spreading, and the less extreme groups are adopting these standards too (they wouldn't want to appear to be less frum, chas v'shalom!), and this is what many within the Orthodox world find so disturbing about this incident.

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  3. > Interestingly enough, the vitriol directed toward them—as an entire group, a single entity—is coming from those who supposedly glorify liberal values, who care about women’s rights, and who believe in tolerance toward all. How strange that this tolerance seems to evaporate when the discussion turns to fundamentalist Jews who are “all retarded, evil, and sick” (as expressed, among other lovely sentiments, by numerous commenters).

    Isn't this stereotyping and generalization of "liberals", based on a few choice comments, the same stereotyping that you are complaining people are doing about chassidim based on a few misunderstood practices?

    Allow me to reflect your own cogent admonitions back to yourself:

    >"The Ultra-Orthodox set certain standards for themselves that are intended to help them live morally."

    Liberal-minded people have certain standards of behavior that they feel demonstrate a more moral lifestyle.

    > "One of these is the prohibiting of publishing pictures of women in their own media."

    One of these is the prohibition of never treating certain groups of people with less respect than other groups.

    > "They do not differentiate between images that have the potential to incite lust and those that don’t."

    They do not differentiate between images that actually intend to demonstrate disrespect and those that only appear to do so.

    > "And that is another thing that is misunderstood about the Ultra-Orthodox/Hasidim: They are, ultimately, human beings."

    And that is another thing that is misunderstood about the liberal-minded masses: They are, ultimately, human beings.... They are not, at their core, more pious or more base than other human beings.

    > "Orthodox media is created by and for the Orthodox. These are their standards."

    Liberal media is created by and for liberals. These are their standards.

    > They do not condemn the secular media for not abiding by their standards

    Actually.... they do. They might not direct that condemnation towards the secular public, but we all know that within their own circles, everything about the secualr world, and especially its media, is condemned in the most strongest of terms.

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  4. This post is contradictory and twisted. Every human is born into his own lifestyle and has the ability to choose his own path once they are fully mature to do so. From your post and HH's comment you both appear to be angry rebels from the orthodox Jewish sect. You both have to choose a path now and by posting comments and information that put your own sect in a bad view, well, may god help you and your families, but this is not a path.

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  5. Daniel,

    I am still trying to find the “anger” and “rebelliousness” in either the post or in HH’s comments. The only anger I see here is coming from you….May god help you and especially all those around you…..

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  6. "Orthodox media is created by and for the Orthodox. These are their standards"

    This line says it all.... but I still believe that it would have been more prudent, to crop the picture, like other papers did, or not to publish the picture at all. What they did is dumb.

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  7. Hedyot, I don't see where I've stereotyped liberals as a group. As someone with liberal leanings myself, I certainly am not personally inclined to criticize the liberal whole. What I said was that it's strange that the comments seem to be coming from people who glorify liberal values and yet that "live and let live" attitude disappears when discussing fundamentalist Jews. I believe it's quite apparent that I'm talking about the particular people who have left disproportionately hateful (imo) comments about the Orthodox in this particular situation.

    Harry22, nobody is arguing that what Di Tzeitung did was prudent or wise or, for that matter, legal. We're in agreement on the "dumb" point.

    Anonymous, I was confused myself at Daniel's comment. Anger? Where?

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  8. > ...the comments seem to be coming from people who glorify liberal values...

    How do you know they "glorify liberal values"? How in the world do you know anything about the commenters other than their thoughts on this one specific issue? Unless you have some history of their prior comments, it seems like a stereotyping to me.

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  9. "...The décor of a room, a table centerpiece, or presentation of food. Women, apparently more frivolous and shallow (according to this ideology), care deeply about such material entities and, therefore, are accommodated in this area."

    "Analogously, the exclusion of female images in Orthodox media, though appearing to be dismissive of women, is actually—if one goes by the ideology it is based on—more of a negative reflection on the Orthodox male character than it is of the female."
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    I do not see how bigotry towards women is made appropriate by bigotry towards men. If your idea of gender equality is equally unfair treatment of both sexes, then I am not convinced of your good morality.

    Those who do not believe that this tradition helps them live their lives more piously should drop the tradition. There is no beauty in bigotry, and tradition based on bigotry deserves no reverence or respect.

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  10. Hedyot, I made what I thought was a logical connection: A person gets all riled up because she/he thinks that women aren't treated with respect; apparently, this is a person who has liberal values. What you're saying is that there isn't necessarily a connection. In other words, I'm guilty of the post hoc ergo propter hoc fallacy. It's possible that I am. But that's not stereotyping.

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  11. Michael, your use of the word *bigotry* is interesting. Not sure how you got to it from the quoted passage.

    The point I was actually trying to make with the part you quoted was that ideology and action don't necessarily correlate logically.

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  12. RFiedler:

    It seems to me that to hold that women are inherently more frivolous and shallow than men is a form of bigotry. The same goes for men being animalistic and unable to control themselves. However, if you prefer the term "sexism," I can accept that.

    I understand the point you were making. However, all you have managed to say is that people misunderstand the particular details of Orthodox sexism. Frankly, it does not matter to me whether men are discriminated against in the first instance and women in the second, or vice versa. I am not at peace with any group being subject to prejudice, and I am even less at peace with two groups being subject to it.

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  13. I agree with your sentiment, Michael. And it's true, many of Orthodoxy's premises are sexist. (This is not to say that as individuals, the Orthodox are sexist. In fact, many aren't.)

    Your above statement, though, about people not believing this lifestyle makes them behave more piously, is incorrect. Along with the sexist premises are numerous premises, positions, and teachings within Orthodoxy that prescribe scrupulously ethical behavior. Since most Orthodox try to live by these guidelines, they do, in fact, believe they are living more morally. And in many ways, they are.

    I am not saying that sexism should be excused. But I think the entire lifestyle should be viewed as a whole before passing judgment on it. One photoshopped picture does not exemplify the lifestyle.

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  14. RFiedler:

    I do not believe that an entire lifestyle has to suffer from the exclusion of a select few misguided and embarrassing elements. There are several decrees in the Old Testament that are, thankfully, no longer practiced even by the Orthodox.

    If an Orthodox person wants to make a decision for himself to wear a coat in the heat of summer, it is entirely up to them. But when a culture condones sexist practice, I do not feel that I have to respect that part of it out of love for diversity.

    I simply disagree that we should not pass judgment on the Orthodox lifestyle based on its sexism. As long as a lifestyle openly condones sexism, racism, or any other prejudice, it should be subject to judgment.

    Unfortunately, Jews are in a unique position, in that there is little they can do to avoid fair or unfair criticism. However, the Orthodox can at least try to avoid being judged harshly by non-Orthodox Jews, who have trouble letting these practices slide uncriticized.

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  15. >The Ultra-Orthodox set certain standards for themselves that are intended to help them live morally.

    I am not sure about that. Halachic Judaismin is all about the letter of the law, and not its spirit.

    God does not want us to carry keys in our pockets on Shabbos when out of our own domain, but to do so on a belt is just fine. Or we can sing "Imagine" and designate the whole freagin globe as our own domain, and God will just wink at us and smile at our ingenuity.

    Hillary is a woman, and glaring at her is verboten. It's the law to its letter.

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  16. Everyone:
    Blogger was out of service for about a day, and in the interim they deleted all comments posted after a certain time on Wednesday. I'll wait another while to see if they rectify this problem; otherwise, I'll try to find the comments in my email copies and re-post them. Sorry.

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  18. I agree with your sentiment, Michael. And it's true, many of Orthodoxy's premises are sexist. (This is not to say that as individuals, the Orthodox are sexist. In fact, many aren't.)

    Your above statement, though, about people not believing this lifestyle makes them behave more piously, is incorrect. Along with the sexist premises are numerous premises, positions, and teachings within Orthodoxy that prescribe scrupulously ethical behavior. Since most Orthodox try to live by these guidelines, they do, in fact, believe they are living more morally. And in many ways, they are.

    I am not saying that sexism should be excused. But I think the entire lifestyle should be viewed as a whole before passing judgment on it. One photoshopped picture does not exemplify the lifestyle.



    Posted by RFiedler to Hasidism And Literature at May 11, 2011 7:58 PM

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  19. RFiedler:


    I do not believe that an entire lifestyle has to suffer from the exclusion of a select few misguided and embarrassing elements. There are several decrees in the Old Testament that are, thankfully, no longer practiced even by the Orthodox.

    If an Orthodox person wants to make a decision for himself to wear a coat in the heat of summer, it is entirely up to them. But when a culture condones sexist practice, I do not feel that I have to respect that part of it out of love for diversity.

    I simply disagree that we should not pass judgment on the Orthodox lifestyle based on its sexism. As long as a lifestyle openly condones sexism, racism, or any other prejudice, it should be subject to judgment.

    Unfortunately, Jews are in a unique position, in that there is little they can do to avoid fair or unfair criticism. However, the Orthodox can at least try to avoid being judged harshly by non-Orthodox Jews, who have trouble letting these practices slide uncriticized.

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  20. Oops, this comment got deleted again. It should have been about two or three comments ahead. The original time and date posted are listed below.

    RFiedler:

    It seems to me that to hold that women are inherently more frivolous and shallow than men is a form of bigotry. The same goes for men being animalistic and unable to control themselves. However, if you prefer the term "sexism," I can accept that.

    I understand the point you were making. However, all you have managed to say is that people misunderstand the particular details of Orthodox sexism. Frankly, it does not matter to me whether men are discriminated against in the first instance and women in the second, or vice versa. I am not at peace with any group being subject to prejudice, and I am even less at peace with two groups being subject to it.



    Posted by Michael to Hasidism And Literature at May 11, 2011 7:38 PM

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  21. >The Ultra-Orthodox set certain standards for themselves that are intended to help them live morally.

    I am not sure about that. Halachic Judaismin is all about the letter of the law, and not its spirit.

    God does not want us to carry keys in our pockets on Shabbos when out of our own domain, but to do so on a belt is just fine. Or we can sing "Imagine" and designate the whole freagin globe as our own domain, and God will just wink at us and smile at our ingenuity.

    Hillary is a woman, and glaring at her is verboten. It's the law to its letter.



    Posted by Luke Matthews to Hasidism And Literature at May 12, 2011 11:58 AM

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  22. Ok, I think I've replaced all the comments now. Sorry about the mixup.

    On another note, a reader let me know that it's wrong to say that *Hasidism* and *Ultra-Orthodoxy* are synonymous, as I have indicated in my first words of this post. The reader is right, actually. Hasidim are Litvaks are both considered ultra-orthodox or charedim.

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  23. That should read, "Hasidim *and* Litvaks..."

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  24. "Tzitung" is the independent Satmar paper; the one which talks about the real world (usually by translating Times articles into Yiddish).

    Publisher Avrumi "Albert" Friedman is one of the savviest political minds in NYC. He is the man to talk to about politics among NYC haredim.

    Albert once told me "I prefer liberals to conservatives, because most conservatives will remain bigots, while you can usually talk to even the worst liberal."

    But, no matter how smart, worldly and relatively liberal Albert is, he's still a Satmar

    I should note that, not only is Friedman a rare Hasidic liberal, but his publishing the picture was an expression of that liberalism, proving no good mitzvah goes unpunished (and Albert's done about 613) http://www.brooklynpaper.com/stories/34/19/all_warroomphoto_2011_5_13_bk.html

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  25. Well, this is a nice surprise! My old blog lives! Thank you, Gatemouth, for your comment.

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